A Necessary Beauty

"God rips off medals of rank, puts aside titles, honors, and talents, and appears in his birthday suit. Veiled in flesh the Godhead see; hail the incarnate deity! In the Incarnation, things heavenly and earthly are gathered into one: one in the naked flesh and folds of God. Mary Ellen Ashcroft - Gift-wrapping God.

This week gave me a wonderful opportunity to work with my muse, Magenta, and her wonderful new arrival, Caius:

It was a true delight to see them both doing well and to spend the best part of a day, following them with a camera, as Magenta bathed, fed, played and was entirely there for this new life, nurturing and caring for her child with all the love of a mother for her beloved.
It had not been an easy birth, and Magenta candidly informed me that now, some two months on, it felt as though every muscle inside her had been withdrawn in those hours and replaced with something feeble and weak instead. She spoke of how she had reached the point where there she had no more to give, but somehow, miraculously, her body had managed to continue, and despite complications, Caius was born, and is so deeply loved.

There were numerous thoughts and comparisons that went through my mind as we talked and worked, but one that came to prominence, especially as Caius was fed, was a verse by Paul in his letter to the young gathering of Christians in Thessalonica: "We were gentle among you, like a nursing mother feeding her own children. Being so affectionately desirous of you, we readily shared the Gospel of God. You had become that dear to us" (Chapter 2, verses 7&8).  Paul is saying that the message of Christ is something as needful as a mother's breast milk, and true Christian ministry is as loving and as desirable as a mother nursing her new born.

We recently studied this letter at church, and I was dreadfully disappointed at the translation used which read: "we were gentle among you, like a mother caring for little children", pretty well omitting the image (in the reading and the following sermon) Paul actually uses - even more bizarre, when this celebration of motherhood, which includes a mother breast feeding, is situated on the church wall (!):

We see the spiritual and the good so often in the most natural parts of life, especially when we encounter the joy of love being shared - it graphically shows us what life is all about, but we sadly so often confine such splendor to the 'small corners' of our days, hiding the goodness and the rightness of what we are and God's gifts to us.

I have been truly thankful for the opportunity to catch glimpses of this astonishing moment in the lives of people at a remarkable time. It speaks deeply of what truly matters, knowing love - God's love for us, and our love for one another.

 With huge thanks to Magenta and Caius.